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Hi everyone, today's post is gonna be a little different. No pretty pictures but I hope you don't get too bored reading it and in some way or another, this post can motivate or inspire you.

If you have watched the movie Inside Out, you probably are able to categorize yourself easily. As for me, it's definitely going to be Sadness. People like myself will usually say "It's probably because I'm a Pisces and that explains why the mood swings and crazy emotions.", which we all know which month we were born in isn't really the problem here. And I do believe nobody is born to be a pessimist.

We feel down and demoralized when we had a bad day at work. When managers and bosses put you down, you start to doubt yourself that you are incapable and unfit for the job because other people could easily outperform you. Then you start to let vicious thoughts invade your mind, thinking about how useless you are and you are literally good at nothing. You dread work so much and all you are thinking about every morning is to tender your resignation and find a better job for yourself. 

We threw temper at people we care about, hoping they will understand and shower you with love and concern no matter how ridiculous we behave. If they don't, we will start bawling our eyes out and be all sad and dramatic about how are we suppose to grow old alone.

Truth is, there are always gonna be moments like these at different phrases of our lives and it just so happens. Being happy should be our top priority and we shouldn't let other people or things to bother us and take away the well-deserved happiness away from us. I have a friend who has been unhappy for years now because of an unrequited love, which I have to admit I used to be in a similar situation and totally understand how that feels. It really sucks a big time. But we should never let people who don't give a shit about us to judge us and determine our self-worth. You definitely worth more than that.

One way to feel better about yourself is to take a break. Take one or two weeks off work or anything that caused your unhappiness and go book a flight to anywhere. Trust me, traveling to new places can make a difference to the way you think. If you are struggling with budget, you could go the beach or park to spend some quality time alone. Think about what you need in life and how you would want your life to be. Because at the end of the day, you are the one leading your life, you are the one who bring yourself to the place you wanna be. Don't forget all of you matter to someone in your life.

So, be brave and keep fighting.

With love,